TW: Rape, domestic violence, in-patient psychiatric care, attempted suicide, anorexia
This week I am going to read The Vegetarian by Han Kang. I read this book several months ago and it was actually the inspiration for this ILC. I wanted to reread it in full, this time looking at it through more of an academic lens. I am interested in how the novel will read when read with an intention other than pleasure, not that I don’t think it will be pleasurable because it is for school, but I think it will taste different on the second pass because I am looking for something this time. I am specifically looking for ways in which the main characters relationship with food affects her relationships with other people.
This novel follows Yeong-hye and her relationship with meat, eating, and family, following several gory dreams that lead her to become a vegetarian. The book is split in to three sections, each told from the perspective of someone close to Yeong-hye but none from her own point of view. My copy was 188 pages, published in 2015, and was translated from Korean. I’m going to be putting most of my focus on the first and third sections as they pertain mostly to food, but I will have a paragraph summary of the second section.
The first chapter “The Vegetarian” is told from the perspective of Yeong-hye’s husband Mr. Chong. He admits to having very little attraction to his wife, and even opens the book stating “Before my wife turned vegetarian, I’d always thought of her as completely unremarkable in every way.” Despite their marriage he seems cold and uncaring towards her, seeing her more as a homemaker than a partner or a wife. One morning he finds her standing in front of their refrigerator disposing of all their meat and talking of a dream she had. After her husband rushes after the house calling her crazy we get a glimpse into the dream, Yeong-hye pushing through a jungle of bamboo shoots strung with meat and running with blood.
Yeong-hye continues to suffer abuse from her husband as she becomes a vegetarian. While he is increasingly harsh to her, she becomes more and more reserved, sickly, and overall seems disassociated from her husband. He begins raping her as she refuses his sexual advances, belittling her with his coworkers and boss over dinners, and informing her family. Yeong-hye faces ridicule from her community and family, and begins to lose weight rapidly
It comes to a head at a family dinner with Yeong-hye’s family. Her husband asks a question about the spread created by Yeong-hye’s sister, prompting Yeong-hye’s mother and father to fly into a rage over her choice not to cook or eat meat. When she wont eat the offered octopus, her father hits her, and her brother and husband restrain her so they may force a bite into her mouth but cannot get it past her teeth. When she is able to free herself, she uses a nearby fruit knife to slit her wrists. She is admitted to the hospital as dreaded by her husband, and we learn later that two years after he serves her with divorce papers.
Already this first chapter is heavy with this idea of otherness in food. Fear and otherness are a huge concept when trying new foods, for children and adults, and heavily impact the chances of us enjoying a food. Our preconcieved ideas of what a taste and texture will do a lot to avoid or create inner conflict around a food we are trying for the first time, and the emotional response changes if we will like it or not. This idea of being vegetarian seems to outrage Yeong-hye’s family as much as it suddenly disgusts her, and while Yeong-hye is not forcing her family not to cook or eat meat, they are adamant that she must give up being a vegetarian and prescribe to their diet. Her family blames the vegetarian diet for her weightloss and her sickley appreance, meanwhile it’s more than likely that the stress of this dream and the lack of support from her husband and family is causing the weightloss from mental distress. No one cares to look further than her actions, and therefore they miss her entire motivation which was to be in less emotional anguish.
The second section “The Mongolian Mark” is told from the perspective of Yeong-hye’s brother in law. He has a deep obsession with an image of naked men and women with flowers painted on their backs, but finds the show to be to loudly sexual. He begins an obsession with the idea of a pornographic film of a man and a woman covered in painted flowers. He remembers that Yeong-hye has a Mongolian Mark on her buttock and sketches an image of a man and a woman (himself and Yeong-hye) painted in flowers and starts searching for ways to make his idea real.
After a cryptic phone convocation he drives to her apartment where he enters her unlocked apartment without knocking and finds her naked. She seems unbothered by it, and expresses how much she enjoys nudity when she is alone. She seems indifferent to his idea but he is able to collect her at the train station and take her to his studio soon after, where he paints her with flowers and photographs her. Something I found interesting was that while he had been filled with lust for her and her Mongolian Mark for most of the chapter, upon seeing it he finds it less sexual than he remembered, referring to it as “vegetative”. He later convinces a fellow artist, J, to join the shoot, painting him with flowers too and having him lay with Yeong-hye for slow imitated intercourse while her brother-in-law films. However, J is clearly much more uncomfortable with this from the start, and backs out quickly when asked to actually have intercourse with Yeong-hye which was not a part of the original proposal. Yeong-hye expresses that she would have done it, if not for the man but for the flowers painted on his body.
The brother-in-law quickly drives to an ex and begs her to paint flowers from his sketches onto his body, and returns to Yeong-hye where he finally gets to film his porno. Mid-way, when she begins to cry and ask him to stop, he turns the camcorder off and continues. Beore sleeping Yeong-hye asks if this would make her dreams stop. When brother-in-law wakes up, he finds his wife In-hye in the corner of the studio with her camcorder in hand, watching his film. She was clearly angry though trying to hide her emotion as she told him that emergency services were on their way to evaluate them both, and the chapter ends as Yeong-hye walked onto the balcony to open her legs up to the sun, and her brother-in-law contemplates throwing himself over the edge in an act of suicide, but ultimately finds himself “rooted to the spot”.
This chapter ultimately felt like a give and take on Yeong-hye’s sovreingty. There were the larger examples such as her brother-in-laws blatant disregard of “stop” when they were having sex, but is also apparent in the way he entered her apartment uninvited, and assumed her cooperation in having sex with J. While this chapter is not heavy on the topic of food like the others, it is still driven by the same theme of Yeong-hye’s family trying to conform her to their vision. With each section, we see less agency given to Yeong-hye from the eyes of the observer despite what her actions may be.
The final section “Flaming Trees” is told from Yeong-hye’s sisters persepctive, In-hye. Yeong-hye has been at an inpatient facility of which In-hye is now visiting. She reveals to the reader that it has been some time since the incident with her husband, who after his release from jail went into hidingf, and much of her own family has cut her off for her continued involvment with Yeong-hye, whom she still feels a sisterly responsibility too. When she had arrived she was still refusing meat, and was now refusing food completly, the Dr. telling In-hye that if intrevanious feeding doesn’t work, they will have to take Yeong-hye to another hospital for more intense treatment. They give In-hye 30 minutes to make Yeong-hye eat something before they try a needle, and she agrees. Yeong-hye is found doing a handstand in her room, and doesn’t move or acknowledge the presence of another until In-hye pushes her over.
When In-hye promts her to eat, Yeong-hye explains a dream she had that taught her that trees stand with their airms in the earth, and says that she doesnt need food, only water. She later goes on to tell her sister that she was no longer an animal, but a tree, requiring only light and water. The doctors tell In-hye that if inserting a feeding tube does not work she will have to be immediatly transfered at risk of her starving to death. While watching Yeong-hye sleep, In-hye admits to herself her sisters madness, and reflects upon her life over the last few years that eluded to her own. When her time is up, the doctors take Yeong-hye away to put in the feeding tube. She resist heavily, and In-hye becomes upset, rushing into the room as Yeong-hye struggles and blood starts to run from the tube. The book ends as both Yeong-hye and In-hye are in the ambulance on the way to the hospital, unclear if it is one or both of them who are to be patients.
This final chapter really makes the book feel as though it may be the story of two young women as opposed to just Yeong-hye. In-hye’s life is so deeply woven into this novel that I found myself more understanding of her than any other character in this book by the end. While she doesn’t understand her sisters motivations behind becoming vegetarian, she has observed and acknowledged the abuse Yeong-hye suffered because of it. She is the only family member willing to help her sister even after all that has happened, and sufferes a similar arch to Yeong-hye. When her sister gives up meat her family falls apart around her trying to have her conform to the point where they are forcing upon her the same anguish she gave up the meat to save herself from.
Her family also notably forces the pleasure out of an event that they normally precede as an event of joy, a family meal of many multiple lavish dishes, homemade by family members. But even this is a guise to conform Yeong-hye to their liking, and when her parents are disapointed by Yeong-hye’s refusal to eat what was prepared the conflict ensued. If we were to ask the question of why Yeong-hye chose to slit her wrists in that moment, I can only make guesses as it was not explicite. My main guess would be a search for control, having just had her autonomy stripped from her, her family members restraining and force feeding her, she turned to the fastest way to regain ultimate control of her body, suicide. Wether or not she wanted to die in the moment is irrelivent to the fact that she would rather be dead than conformed in the way her family would see fit. We see another character, her brother-in-law, portray this same line of thinking later on in the book, though he ultimatly finds himself unable to move.
There are many refreences in this book to the idea of a person being a tree. In “The Mongolian Mark” upon learning that emergency services are coming for him, when Yeong-hye’s brother in law contemplates throwing himself over the edge of the balcony and to his death, but finds himself “rooted to the spot”. Later in “Flaming Trees” In-hye sees the knotted trunk of a tree and pictures her sisters face inlaid over it. Later, when Yeong-hye believes she is transforming into a tree, her roomate tells In-hye how she will spend hours on her hands, as if they are rooting her to the earth. I think this supports my idea that this book is an analogy for ignored mental illness and conformity vs healing. By the time Yeong-hye is recieving compassion, it is easier on her mind to acept this idea of being a tree as a way to make up for her lost agency.
Ultimately, this book demonstrates the very real possibility of gaining an eating disorder of sorts when raised around abuse, or abused in adulthood. As her relationship with the world deteriorates, so does her relationship with food. One could argue that if her husband had loved and supported her when she was first in pain, the rest of the story may not have been there to be told. After the focuses I had last quarter, this feels like watching the effects of that untreated play out. And while I do not want to say that her case is extra dramatized, most people with extreme cases of eating disorders think they’re turning into trees.
I did some surrounding reserach on this book, and while it is not heavily banned, it is prohibited in some places due to it’s explicite content. It was criticised in South Korea for challenging the diet narrative and the portrayal of abuse within families, but also recieved incredible reviews for it’s harsh realities and critical thinking around food and mental wellbeing. While it was not an easy read either time I think it’s an important piece of litreture to challenge ones ideas around self agency and conformity around food and family.